Welcome, Families!
Eight sessions. One Gospel. One purpose: knowing Jesus together - as families.
This study is built around the mission of helping everyone become an outward-focused follower of Jesus. We walk through the Gospel of Luke - the most family-friendly, story-rich Gospel - asking one question every session: What does this moment in Jesus' life mean for our family today?
Sessions meet every other week, giving families time between gatherings to try the at-home exercises, reflect on Scripture, and bring real stories back to the group. This rhythm is intentional - relationship with Jesus grows between sessions, not just during them.
Our Mission
Our mission is simple: Families Knowing Jesus. This study is not just for individuals. It is for couples, parents, and households who want Jesus to be as real at the dinner table on Tuesday as He is in this room tonight.
A warm-up question to build real relationships - not just Bible knowledge.
Luke passage + supporting Scripture + suggested deeper reading. All linked to YouVersion app.
A 10-min group activity that's playful and connects to the theme.
Questions that connect Jesus to marriage, parenting, family life today.
Every session asks: how do we take this outside our walls?
3-days-per-week practices between sessions to build a real daily relationship with Jesus.
Sessions meet bi-weekly, giving families two weeks between gatherings to practice, reflect, and return with real stories.
| # | Theme | Primary Passage | Supporting |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Who Is Jesus to Our Family? | Orientation - No Reading | - |
| 2 | The Announced Savior | Luke 1–2 | Isa 9:6 · Mic 5:2 · John 1 |
| 3 | Identity & Temptation | Luke 3–4 | Rom 8:15 · Heb 4:15 |
| 4 | The God Who Sees | Luke 5, 7–8 | John 4 · Isa 53:3 |
| 5 | Kingdom Upside Down | Luke 9–10, 12 | Matt 5:3–12 · Phil 4:11 |
| 6 | Radical Grace | Luke 15–16 | Rom 5:8 · Eph 2:4 |
| 7 | Road to the Cross | Luke 19–23 | Isa 53 · Heb 12:2 |
| 8 | He Is Risen - Now What? | Luke 24 | 1 Cor 15 · Acts 1:8 |
Who Is Jesus to Our Family?
Before we open Scripture, we open ourselves - and begin building real community
🧊 Family Superlatives
Each family shares one funny and one real "Most likely to…" about their household:
- Most likely to pray before a meal... even at the drive-through?
- Most likely to still be up at midnight reading Scripture - or scrolling?
- Most likely to invite a stranger to dinner this week?
Who Was Luke - and Why Does It Matter?
Luke was a Gentile physician - the only non-Jewish author in the entire Bible. He wrote his Gospel for Theophilus (whose name means "Lover of God"), likely a Roman official who was new to faith. Luke's purpose was precise: to give an orderly, carefully investigated account of Jesus' life so that his reader would have certainty about what he had been taught (Luke 1:3–4). He interviewed eyewitnesses. He gathered testimony. He wrote like a doctor - methodical, compassionate, attentive to detail.
More than any other Gospel, Luke shows us a Jesus who moves toward the overlooked: women, children, the poor, outsiders, Gentiles, sinners. This is the Gospel most shaped by grace extended to those who didn't expect it. For families navigating a complex, divided, distracted world - Luke is exactly the right place to encounter Jesus.
Why "Knowing Jesus" Is This Year's Focus
This study's 2026 initiative - Knowing Jesus - is rooted in Paul's prayer in Philippians 3:10: "That I may know Him." Not know about Him. Not know His teachings intellectually. Know Him - as a living Person. This study is built on that same hunger. We're not studying a religion. We're pursuing a relationship that changes how we parent, how we love, how we lead our homes, and how we engage our neighborhoods.
No full reading tonight - just a brief orientation passage. Have someone read aloud.
🎴 Where Are You Right Now?
Give each family an index card. Each person writes privately:
- One word for where they are with Jesus right now
- One hope for what this study might do for their family
Collect the cards. They will be returned at Session 8. Do not share them aloud tonight.
- Family When you hear the phrase "knowing Jesus" - what's the first thing that comes to mind? Knowing facts about Him, or something more personal?
- Family What is one thing your family does really well together? What is one area where you'd love to grow in the next few months?
- Outward Luke wrote his Gospel so that Theophilus would have certainty about what he believed. Is there someone in your neighborhood or network who has questions about Jesus? What would it look like to walk alongside them?
- Family What do you hope changes in your home by the end of this eight-week study?
- Outward Our group's mission is helping everyone become an outward-focused follower of Jesus. What does "outward-focused" mean to you practically - this week, on your street?
The Announced Savior
700 years of prophecy. One teenage girl. An ordinary home. The most extraordinary birth in history.
🧊 "Our Family's Most Unexpected Moment"
Each family shares: One time something completely unexpected happened in your household that changed your plans - or your life. Was it good, hard, or both? 60 seconds per family. This opens the theme of God showing up in ordinary homes uninvited and unannounced.
The World Into Which Jesus Was Born
Israel had waited 400 years in prophetic silence - no prophet, no word from God - since Malachi. The Jewish people lived under brutal Roman occupation. Heavy taxation, political humiliation, and violent oppression were daily realities. Many had stopped expecting anything to change. Into this hopeless exhaustion, God sends an angel - not to Rome, not to Jerusalem's Temple, not to a palace. He sends Gabriel to Nazareth, a rural backwater village so obscure that Nathanael later asked, "Can anything good come out of Nazareth?" (John 1:46). And He speaks to a teenage girl from an ordinary family.
This was not a mistake. It was the point. Luke is establishing from the very first chapter that God's greatest work moves through the small, the humble, and the overlooked. Mary's response - "Let it be to me according to your word" - is one of the most significant sentences in all of Scripture. In a moment that could have shattered her reputation, ended her engagement, and brought social shame, she said yes. She didn't fully understand. She simply trusted.
The Magnificat - A Revolutionary Song
Mary's Song (Luke 1:46–55) is one of the most politically and theologically charged passages in the New Testament. Drawing directly from Hannah's prayer in 1 Samuel 2, Mary declares that the coming of Jesus will scatter the proud, bring down rulers, lift up the humble, and send the rich away empty. This was not safe language under Roman rule. It was a declaration that a new Kingdom was arriving - one that inverted every existing power structure. Mary sang this not after the resurrection, not after any miracle - but while still pregnant, on the basis of a promise alone. Her faith preceded any evidence. This is the model Luke sets for every family in this study.
The Shepherds - Why God Chose Them First
In first-century Jewish culture, shepherds were considered ceremonially unclean and socially unreliable - their testimony wasn't even accepted in court. God announced the birth of His Son to the people no court would believe. This was not accidental. It announced what the entire Gospel of Luke would demonstrate: Jesus came for exactly the people the world has written off. For families today navigating feelings of inadequacy, failure, or invisibility - the shepherds' story is deeply personal. God ran to them first.
Read the primary passage aloud together, then the supporting verses.
⏳ 400 Years of Silence
Set a timer for 60 seconds. Sit in complete silence. No phones. No talking.
When the timer ends, ask: "That was one minute. God was silent for 400 years between Malachi and Matthew. How do you hold onto faith when God feels quiet?"
Let families respond briefly - this sets up the discussion.
- Family Mary said yes to something that would cost her everything - her reputation, her engagement, her plans. Has your family ever said yes to something that felt impossible? What happened?
- Family The shepherds - the first people told about Jesus' birth - were legally inadmissible as witnesses in court. Why do you think God chose them? What does that say about who Jesus came for?
- Outward Isaiah wrote "a child will be born" 700 years before it happened. How does that kind of fulfilled prophecy affect your confidence in who Jesus claimed to be?
- Family Mary's song declares that God scatters the proud, lifts up the humble, and fills the hungry. Where does your family see those values in tension with what your neighborhood or workplace celebrates?
- Outward The angels said "good news of great joy for all the people." All. Who in your community might feel like the good news wasn't meant for them?
Identity & Temptation
Before Jesus did one miracle, God declared who He was. That identity held everything.
🧊 "Labels We Carry"
Each person (adults and kids) shares: one label the world puts on me (busy parent, high achiever, the one who struggles) - and one label God might use for them instead. This directly opens the session's theme. You may be surprised what your children say.
The Baptism - Why God Spoke Before Jesus Did Anything
In the ancient Jewish world, a person's identity was entirely tied to what they did - their lineage, their obedience to Torah, their role in the community. Performance and position defined worth. Against that backdrop, what happens at Jesus' baptism is staggering: before Jesus heals anyone, teaches anyone, or performs a single miracle, the Father speaks from heaven and declares His identity. "You are my beloved Son. With You I am well pleased." Full approval. Full delight. Zero track record yet.
The Greek word for "beloved" here is agapetos - used in the ancient world for an only, uniquely precious child. It is the same root as agape, the unconditional love that defines God's character. This wasn't encouragement before a big job. This was declaration of ontological worth - worth rooted in being, not doing. And in Romans 8:15, Paul tells us that through Christ, we have received the same Spirit of adoption, and we too can cry "Abba, Father" - the intimate Aramaic word a child uses for their dad.
The Temptation - The Enemy Always Attacks Identity First
Every one of Satan's three temptations in Luke 4 begins with "If you are the Son of God…" - a direct assault on the identity just declared at the baptism. This is not coincidental. The enemy's primary strategy is never to argue theology. It is to make you doubt who you are. Notice: Jesus doesn't defend Himself with clever arguments. He doesn't prove anything. He simply quotes Scripture - three times, from Deuteronomy - and the attack collapses. The antidote to an identity under attack is the Word of God, internalized and ready. This is why Deuteronomy 6:4–9 commands parents to talk about God's words constantly - at home, on the road, morning and evening. Children who know Scripture have an anchor that the world cannot pull up.
Luke 4:18 - The Mission That Defines Our Outward Focus
When Jesus stands in the Nazareth synagogue and reads from Isaiah 61, He is not just announcing His agenda. He is doing something radical: in Jewish tradition, when a rabbi finished reading, he would sit down - and the whole room would wait in anticipation for his teaching. Jesus rolls up the scroll, sits down, and every eye is fixed on Him. Then He says: "Today this Scripture is fulfilled in your hearing." He is saying plainly: I am the one Isaiah wrote about. For families living out the mission of being outward-focused - this passage is the DNA. The Spirit of the Lord is on us. To bring good news to families that are poor, freedom to households that feel captive, sight to eyes that are blind to hope.
🪞 What Defines You?
Give each person 60 seconds to write down three things that most define their sense of worth right now (job title, parenting role, achievement, appearance, etc.).
Then ask: "If every one of those things disappeared tomorrow, who would you be?"
No one has to share - but invite anyone who wants to respond.
- Family Before Jesus healed anyone or preached a single sermon, God said "You are my beloved Son - I am well pleased." What does it mean that God's approval came before any performance? How does that change how you parent?
- Family Every one of Satan's temptations started with "If you are the Son of God." The attack was on identity, not theology. Where do you see your family's identity being most attacked right now?
- Outward Jesus answered every temptation with Scripture from Deuteronomy - words He had internalized. What would it look like to help your children have Scripture "ready" in the same way?
- Family Jesus stood up in Nazareth and said He came to bring good news to the poor, freedom to the captive, sight to the blind. That's His family's mission statement. What is yours?
- Outward Hebrews says Jesus was tempted in every way we are. How does knowing that change how you bring your family's hardest struggles to Him?
The God Who Sees the Outsider
In a world of boundaries, Jesus kept crossing them - and He still does through families like yours
🧊 "Who Made Your Family Feel Seen?"
Share: Tell about a time someone reached toward your family when you felt invisible, overwhelmed, or new to something. What did they do? A neighbor, a teacher, a church member. How did it change things for your family?
Why Touching a Leper Was Unthinkable
Under Levitical law (Leviticus 13–14), a person with leprosy was declared tamei - ceremonially unclean. They were required to live outside the city, tear their clothes, leave their hair loose, and cry "Unclean! Unclean!" as they walked so others could avoid them. Physical contact made the person they touched also unclean - socially, religiously, and practically contaminating. This wasn't mere social discomfort. It was full exclusion from family, community, worship, and economic life. Often for life.
When Jesus reaches out and touches the leper in Luke 5:13, He doesn't just heal him. He breaks a social and religious law so deeply embedded in Jewish culture that it would have caused audible gasps in every crowd. Jesus could have healed him with a word - from a distance. He chose to touch him. That touch said: you are not untouchable. You matter. I am not afraid of what you carry. For families today navigating conversations about who is "in" and who is "out" - in their schools, their neighborhoods, their political discourse - this single gesture speaks volumes.
The Woman Who Wept - Extravagance as Theology
In Luke 7:36–50, a "sinful woman" (likely known in the community for sexual sin) enters the home of Simon the Pharisee - uninvited, unwelcome - and proceeds to weep over Jesus' feet, wipe them with her hair, and anoint them with expensive perfume. Simon's reaction is telling: "If this man were a prophet, he would know who this woman is." His logic was: holiness requires distance from sin. Jesus' response exposes the opposite logic entirely. He says the woman's extravagant love flows directly from her awareness of how much she has been forgiven. The more we understand what we've been forgiven of, the more we love - and the less we judge. This is the relational physics of grace, and it has profound implications for how families handle failure, shame, and restoration inside their own walls.
The Bleeding Woman - Jesus Stopped for One Person in a Crowd
The woman with the bleeding issue (Luke 8:43–48) had been ill for 12 years. Under Levitical law, her condition rendered her continuously unclean - meaning anyone she touched also became unclean. She had spent everything she had on physicians. She was broke, ritually excluded, and desperate. She reached through the crowd and touched Jesus' garment from behind - anonymously, hoping not to be noticed. Jesus stops in the middle of an urgent, life-or-death errand (Jairus's dying daughter awaits) and asks, "Who touched me?" His disciples are baffled: the crowd is pressing against you from all sides. But Jesus stopped for one unnamed, overlooked, excluded woman and spoke her dignity back into existence publicly: "Daughter, your faith has made you well." He called her "daughter." He gave her a family name. For families learning to be outward-focused - this is the standard Jesus set.
👁 Name Someone Invisible
Each family privately writes the name of one person in their regular orbit they think might feel overlooked, invisible, or like they don't belong.
Don't share the name - but ask: "What would it cost you to cross the line and acknowledge that person this week?"
- Family Jesus could have healed the leper from a distance - He chose to touch him instead. Under Jewish law, that made Jesus ceremonially unclean. Why do you think He chose touch? What does that say to families who prefer to help from a safe distance?
- Outward The sinful woman washed Jesus' feet with her tears. Simon the Pharisee was horrified. Jesus said her extravagant love showed she had been forgiven much. Do you think your family's love for Jesus looks extravagant to people watching? Why or why not?
- Family The bleeding woman had been sick for 12 years and spent everything she had. When she touched Jesus, He stopped the whole crowd and called her "Daughter" - publicly restoring her. Has Jesus ever given your family a public restoration moment? How did that change you?
- Outward Jesus spoke to the woman at the well - alone, at noon, a Samaritan, a woman with a complicated history. He broke four social rules at once. What social rules does your family need to break to reach the people in your neighborhood who feel unseen?
- Family Isaiah says the Messiah would be "despised and rejected, a man of sorrows, acquainted with grief." How does it change your family's approach to suffering, knowing Jesus was specifically acquainted with rejection?
The Kingdom Upside Down
Jesus redefined greatness, success, and security - in ways that challenge every modern family
🧊 "Our Family's Busiest Week This Year"
Each family describes their most over-scheduled week this year - what was on the calendar? Then: In all that activity, how much intentional time with Jesus was scheduled? No guilt - just honest self-awareness as we enter this week's theme.
Why the Disciples Argued About Greatness - and Why We Still Do
In Luke 9:46, the disciples argue about which of them is the greatest - on the same road where Jesus had just told them He was going to die. This wasn't stupidity. It was humanity. In the first century, social hierarchy was fixed and all-important. Positioning, honor, and status governed every relationship. The disciples had left everything to follow Jesus - it was completely natural to wonder what their sacrifice would earn them. Jesus' response is one of the most disorienting moments in the Gospels: He places a child in front of them and says, "Whoever receives this child in my name receives me." A child in ancient culture had no legal standing, no social status, no power. To say the child is the model of Kingdom greatness was not a sweet sentiment. It was a direct inversion of every cultural value they had been raised with.
Mary and Martha - The Most Misunderstood Passage in Luke
Most readings of Luke 10:38–42 make Martha the villain and Mary the hero. That misses the deeper point. In first-century Jewish culture, women were not permitted to sit at a rabbi's feet and be taught - that was reserved for male disciples. Martha was doing what any Jewish woman was expected to do: serve the guests. Mary was doing something culturally transgressive: she was positioning herself as a disciple. When Jesus says Mary has "chosen what is better," He is not condemning hospitality. He is defending Mary's right to learn - to be a disciple - and saying that sitting at His feet, knowing Him, hearing His voice, is the one thing that cannot be taken away. For families whose lives feel like one long to-do list, the question is not whether to serve. The question is whether knowing Jesus is protected in your schedule - or perpetually crowded out by good things.
The Rich Fool - The Parable That Cuts Deepest for Modern Families
In Luke 12:16–21, a man's land produces so abundantly that he faces a genuine logistical problem: where to store the surplus. His solution is completely logical by modern financial planning standards: tear down the old barns, build bigger ones, store everything, retire comfortably, and enjoy life. God's response: "You fool. Tonight your soul is required of you." The Greek word aphron - "fool" - in biblical wisdom literature describes not stupidity but a person who makes decisions as though God does not exist and eternity is not real. The man was not wicked. He was not lazy. He was financially prudent by every worldly measure. He simply forgot that life consists of more than the abundance of possessions - and that his soul had a timeline his calendar didn't show. For families building financial futures, this parable doesn't condemn saving. It asks: what are you building for - and for whom?
📋 What Is Your Family Building?
Give each family 90 seconds to list the top five things their household spends the most time, money, and energy on each week.
Then ask: "If Jesus looked at that list, what would He celebrate? What would He gently challenge?"
No judgment - this is between each family and God. Let a few share if they want.
- Family The disciples argued about who was greatest - while Jesus was predicting His death. Jesus placed a child in front of them as the answer. What quality of a child does your family most need to recover right now: dependence, wonder, simplicity, or trust?
- Family Jesus told Martha that one thing was needed - and Mary chose it. What is crowding out the "one essential thing" in your household this season?
- Outward The Rich Fool's decisions were financially reasonable - save more, plan well, take life easy. Jesus called him a fool because he made decisions as if God didn't exist. How does your family make financial decisions differently because of Jesus?
- Family The Beatitudes say blessed are the poor in spirit, the mourning, the meek. These are not people the world celebrates. How does raising children in a Kingdom-upside-down value system look different from what your neighborhood models?
- Outward Paul learned contentment "in whatever state I am." He learned it - it wasn't natural. What is one area where your family is still learning contentment rather than striving for more?
Radical Grace & Forgiveness
The Father was already running before the son rehearsed his apology - and He runs toward every family
🧊 "The Return Story"
Share: Tell about a time someone in your family came back - after distance, a hard season, or an estrangement. What was the reunion like? Or share: is there a relationship in your family where you're still watching the road - still waiting? This doesn't need to be resolved to be shared.
The Prodigal Son - What Every Word Meant in Its Cultural Context
The parable in Luke 15:11–32 is so familiar that we miss how catastrophic the opening line was to its original audience. A Jewish son asking for his inheritance while his father was still alive was not merely rude - it was a formal declaration that he wished his father were already dead. In Middle Eastern culture, the community's expected response would have been a formal ceremony of excommunication. The son would be cut off completely. The shame was not just personal; it fell on the entire family and extended community.
What the father does next is equally stunning. When the son returns, the text says he saw him "while he was still a long way off" - which means the father had been watching the road. He had not moved on. Then he ran. In ancient Middle Eastern culture, a man of means and dignity did not run in public - it required lifting your robe, exposing your legs, which was considered deeply undignified. The father shamed himself publicly to reach his son before the village could shame him. He covered his son's disgrace with his own. This is not a sweet story about parental love. This is the most precise picture of the atonement in the entire Gospels.
The Older Brother - The Most Dangerous Character in the Parable
Most families identify with the prodigal. But the older brother is arguably more relevant to faithful churchgoing households. He never left. He obeyed every command. He worked faithfully for years. And when grace was extended to his wayward brother, he was furious. He tells the father: "I have been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders, yet you never gave me a party." The language he uses for his relationship with his father is the language of a servant, not a son. He had been in the house all along - and had never understood that he was loved, not just employed. Many faithful, religious families are living in the house with a servant's heart - doing all the right things, but never resting in the Father's love. The father's response is tender: "Son, you are always with me, and everything I have is yours." The invitation to grace was open to both brothers all along.
Lazarus at the Gate - The Person We Walk Past Every Day
Luke 16:19–31 is one of the most uncomfortable passages in all of Scripture. The rich man is not described as cruel or oppressive. He does not abuse Lazarus or drive him away. He simply never noticed him. Lazarus lay at his gate every single day - covered in sores, hungry, invisible. The rich man's sin was not active wickedness. It was persistent, comfortable unawareness. After death, the rich man knows Lazarus by name - he had known who he was all along. He had simply never let that knowledge become action. For families with comfortable homes in comfortable neighborhoods - this parable is a direct question: Who is lying at our gate right now that we have stopped seeing?
🏃 What Did the Father See?
The father saw his son "while he was still a long way off." That means he was watching and waiting. He must have looked every day.
Ask each family: "Is there someone in your family or close circle who is 'a long way off' right now? Are you watching for them? What would running toward them look like this week?"
- Family The son's request for his inheritance while his father was still alive was essentially saying "I wish you were dead." The father gave it anyway. How does that change your understanding of what grace actually costs?
- Family The older brother said "I have been slaving for you." He described their relationship as slavery, not sonship. Are there areas where your family relates to God more like employees than beloved children?
- Outward The rich man knew Lazarus by name - he had seen him every day. The sin was not cruelty. It was comfortable unawareness. Who is your family's Lazarus? Someone at your gate you know by name but haven't truly seen?
- Family Romans 5:8 says God demonstrated His love for us "while we were still sinners." Not after we cleaned up. Not after we got it together. How does receiving that change how you extend grace in your home?
- Outward Ephesians says we are saved by grace so that we can do the good works God prepared in advance for us. What good works do you think God prepared specifically for your family in your neighborhood?
Road to the Cross
Jesus walked toward Jerusalem knowing exactly what was waiting - and He kept walking. For us.
🧊 "A Time You Kept Going Anyway"
Share: Tell about a time you or your family faced something hard and kept going anyway - when giving up would have been easier. What made you press through? This opens the theme of Jesus walking toward Jerusalem with full knowledge of what was ahead.
The Triumphal Entry - A Deliberate Coronation Statement
When Jesus enters Jerusalem on a donkey in Luke 19:28–44, it was not a humble, unplanned moment. It was a precise, deliberate fulfillment of Zechariah 9:9, written 500 years earlier: "Rejoice greatly, O daughter of Zion! Shout aloud, O daughter of Jerusalem! Behold, your king is coming to you; righteous and having salvation is he, humble and mounted on a donkey." Every Jewish person watching would have recognized the reference immediately. This was a coronation procession - a royal claim. The crowds spread their cloaks on the road, the ancient equivalent of a red carpet, reserved for kings. They cried "Hosanna" - save us now - the same word used in Psalm 118 for the coming deliverer.
But then, at the very height of the celebration, Luke records something unique to his Gospel: Jesus weeps over Jerusalem. He sees the city celebrating His arrival and He weeps - because He knows they do not understand what kind of King He is, or what peace He has actually come to bring. They expected a military deliverer. He came to be a sacrificial one. This is the gap between what we want Jesus to be for our families and who He actually is. Knowing Jesus means encountering Him as He is, not as we've shaped Him.
Gethsemane - The Most Human Moment in the Gospels
In Luke 22:39–46, Jesus goes to the Garden of Gethsemane and prays with such intensity that Luke - the physician - records a medical detail found nowhere else in the Gospels: His sweat became like great drops of blood falling to the ground. This condition, known as hematidrosis, occurs under extreme psychological and physical stress - when capillaries burst near sweat glands. This was not theater. This was a man in genuine agony. He prays: "Father, if you are willing, remove this cup from me." Jesus wanted another way. He asked for it. And then He said: "Nevertheless, not my will, but yours, be done." The most important prayer in human history was one of surrender. And it was prayed while sweating blood, alone, while His friends slept. For families who bring their hardest moments to God - Gethsemane says: bring everything. He already went there first.
The Cross - What Was Actually Happening
Crucifixion was the most degrading form of execution in the Roman world - reserved for slaves, insurrectionists, and the lowest of criminals. It was designed not just to kill but to utterly shame. Roman citizens could not be crucified by law. Isaiah 53, written 700 years before, described it with eerie precision: "He was pierced for our transgressions; He was crushed for our iniquities." On the cross, Luke records three sayings unique to his Gospel: Jesus asks forgiveness for those crucifying Him ("Father, forgive them; they know not what they do"), He offers paradise to a repentant criminal beside Him, and He commits His spirit to the Father. Even in death, Jesus was doing what He had done His entire ministry - forgiving, welcoming outsiders, and trusting the Father. Nothing about who He was changed at the cross. Everything about our access to God did.
✝ Only in Luke
Three things Jesus said from the cross appear only in Luke's Gospel. Read them aloud as a group:
- "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." (Luke 23:34)
- "Today you will be with me in paradise." (Luke 23:43)
- "Father, into your hands I commit my spirit." (Luke 23:46)
Ask: "If these were the last words your family heard from Jesus, what would you want your response to be?"
- Family Jesus entered Jerusalem to crowds shouting praise - and then wept over the city. He could see both the celebration and the coming destruction at once. How do you hold joy and grief together in your family when both are present at the same time?
- Family In Gethsemane, Jesus asked for another way - and then surrendered. He was fully honest with the Father about what He wanted, and fully surrendered to what the Father willed. What does honest, surrendered prayer look like in your home?
- Outward Isaiah 53 was written 700 years before the crucifixion. Read verses 4-6 alongside Luke 23. How does that level of prophetic precision affect your confidence in Scripture for your children?
- Family Luke - the physician - uniquely records that Jesus sweat drops of blood in Gethsemane. This is a real medical condition under extreme stress. Jesus was not performing suffering. He was in it. How does knowing that change how you pray in your family's hardest moments?
- Outward Hebrews says Jesus "endured the cross, scorning its shame, for the joy set before him." The joy was us. How do you want your family to live differently this week because of that?
He Is Risen - Now What?
The resurrection doesn't just change what we believe - it changes how every family lives from this day forward
📇 Return of the Index Cards
Facilitator returns the index cards written in Session 1. Each family reads aloud: the one word they used for where they were with Jesus then, and the one hope they had for this study. Then share: What changed? What surprised you? What did God do in your family over these eight sessions?
This is the most powerful moment of the study. Give it time. Every family deserves to be heard.
The Empty Tomb - Why "He Is Not Here" Changes Everything
When the women arrive at the tomb on the first day of the week, Luke 24:1–12 records their confusion. They find the stone rolled away. The body is gone. Two angels ask: "Why do you seek the living among the dead? He is not here, but has risen." In the first century, the testimony of women was not accepted in a court of law. If the early church were inventing the resurrection story, they would never have made women the first witnesses - it would have undermined their credibility with every Jewish and Roman audience. The fact that all four Gospels record women as the primary witnesses to the empty tomb is itself a mark of historical authenticity. No fabricator would have written it that way.
The resurrection of Jesus is the hinge point of all human history. Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 15:17: "If Christ has not been raised, your faith is futile and you are still in your sins." He does not soften this. He does not say the resurrection is a metaphor or a spiritual symbol. He says it is either historically real or our faith is worthless. This is not a story about hope as a feeling. It is a claim about what literally happened on a Sunday morning outside Jerusalem - and it changes everything about how families live, grieve, hope, and die.
The Road to Emmaus - Jesus Hiding in Plain Sight
Luke 24:13–35 is one of the most beloved and theologically rich passages in the New Testament. Two disciples walk away from Jerusalem - walking away from the community, away from the hope they had invested in Jesus. They are devastated. A stranger joins them. He walks with them, listens to their grief, and then, beginning with Moses, explains from all the Scriptures why the Messiah had to suffer and enter His glory. They arrive at their destination and the stranger acts as though He will continue. They have to invite Him in. He sits at their table. He takes bread, gives thanks, breaks it - and their eyes are opened. He vanishes. And they say to each other: "Were not our hearts burning within us while he talked with us on the road?"
This is Luke's final gift to every family in this study: Jesus walks with us on our hardest roads - often unrecognized - explaining Scripture, drawing near, waiting to be invited in. And He is most clearly revealed at the breaking of bread - at the table. For a study built around families and dinner tables, this cannot be coincidence.
Acts 1:8 - The Commission That Still Belongs to Every Family
Luke wrote both the Gospel of Luke and the Book of Acts. The final words of Luke lead directly into Acts 1:8: "You will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth." Jerusalem was where they were standing. Their neighborhood. Their city. The commission began with the block they already lived on. For every family in this group, the Great Commission does not start with a mission trip. It starts with your street. It starts with your neighbor whose name you don't know yet, the family at your kids' school that is falling apart, the coworker you walk past every day. The resurrection is not the end of Luke's story. It is the beginning of yours.
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🎴 Then and Now
Return the index cards from Session 1. Give families 2 minutes to read what they wrote.
Invite anyone who wants to share: "What word did you write then? What word would you write now? What changed?"
This is the emotional anchor of the final session. Give it space. Don't rush it.
- Family The women were the first witnesses to the resurrection - in a culture where women's testimony wasn't legally valid. Why would God choose witnesses whose testimony couldn't be used in court? What does that say about how the Kingdom works?
- Family The disciples on the Emmaus road were walking away from Jerusalem - giving up. Jesus joined them on a road headed the wrong direction. Has Jesus ever met your family on a road headed the wrong way? What happened?
- Outward Paul lists eyewitnesses to the resurrection in 1 Corinthians 15 - "most of whom are still alive." He was writing to people who could go check. How does the historical case for the resurrection affect how confidently you talk about Jesus with your neighbors?
- Family Acts 1:8 says "you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, Judea, Samaria, and to the ends of the earth." Jerusalem was their own street. What is one step your family will take on your street in the next two weeks?
- Outward Revelation 21 says God will make everything new - no more death, mourning, crying, or pain. He is making all things new. Where does your family most need that renewal right now - and how can you participate in it?
Between Sessions
Homework, reading prep, and playlists for the weeks between each gathering
Tap the session you just completed to see your homework, reading prep, and playlist for the next two weeks.
Getting Ready for Session 2
The Announced Savior
3-Day Exercise: "What Does Jesus Want My Family to Know?"
How to do it: Pick any 3 evenings this week. Each evening takes about 15 minutes at the dinner table or before bed.
Day 1 - Ask the Question
After dinner, each person answers out loud: "If Jesus could tell our family one thing right now, what do you think it would be?" No wrong answers. Write each response down. Parents go last.
Day 2 - Read and Reflect
Read Luke 1:1-4 together. Luke says he wrote so that we could have certainty about Jesus. Ask: "What is one thing about Jesus that our family is certain about? What is something we are still figuring out?"
Day 3 - Pray It Back
Look at what you wrote on Days 1 and 2. Have one family member pray it back to God using those actual words.
Read and bring your thoughts
- Read Luke 1:26-38 - the Annunciation. Notice how Mary responds to the impossible.
📖 Luke 1:26-38 - Read Luke 2:1-20 - the Birth. Who does God tell first, and why?
📖 Luke 2:1-20 - Optional: Isaiah 9:6-7 - written 700 years before the birth.
📖 Isaiah 9:6-7
Getting Ready for Session 3
Identity and Temptation
3-Day Exercise: "Say Yes Like Mary"
Day 1 - Find Your Impossible Thing
Each person finishes: "The thing God might be asking our family to do that feels impossible right now is ___."
Day 2 - Read the Magnificat Aloud
Read Luke 1:46-55 and 1 Samuel 2:1-10 together. Ask: "Can our family say yes to something before we see the outcome?"
Day 3 - Write Your Family's Yes
Write one sentence: "God, we say yes to ___." Post it where you will see it before Session 3.
Read and bring your thoughts
- Read Luke 3:21-22 - the Baptism. Notice what God says before Jesus has done anything.
📖 Luke 3:21-22 - Read Luke 4:1-13 - the Temptation. Notice every attack begins with "If you are..."
📖 Luke 4:1-13 - Optional: Ephesians 1:3-8 - identity in Christ settled before the world began.
📖 Ephesians 1:3-8
Getting Ready for Session 4
The God Who Sees
3-Day Exercise: "I Am Beloved"
Day 1 - Name the Voices
Ask each person: "What is one message you hear regularly about your worth?" Write them down. Ask: "Is any of this what God says about you?"
Day 2 - Read and Replace
Read Ephesians 1:3-8 slowly. For each message from Day 1, find a replacement from the passage. Write them on a new piece of paper and keep it.
Day 3 - Speak It Over Each Other
Each person speaks one identity statement over each family member: "[Name], God says you are ___."
Read and bring your thoughts
- Read Luke 5:12-16 - Jesus touches a leper. Why touch instead of just speaking a word?
📖 Luke 5:12-16 - Read Luke 7:36-50 - a sinful woman weeps at Jesus' feet.
📖 Luke 7:36-50 - Optional: James 2:1-9 - do not show favoritism.
📖 James 2:1-9
Getting Ready for Session 5
The Kingdom Upside Down
3-Day Exercise: "Stop and See"
Day 1 - Name Someone Invisible
Name one person in your regular orbit who might feel overlooked. Write their name. Pray for them for 60 seconds.
Day 2 - Cross the Line
Do something intentional for that person in person - not digital.
Day 3 - Debrief Together
What did it cost you? What did you feel? What did you learn about Jesus?
Bring to Session 5: Your story of what happened.
Read and bring your thoughts
- Read Luke 9:46-48 - disciples argue about greatness.
📖 Luke 9:46-48 - Read Luke 10:38-42 - Mary and Martha.
📖 Luke 10:38-42 - Read Luke 12:16-21 - the Rich Fool.
📖 Luke 12:16-21 - Optional: Deuteronomy 6:4-9 - talking about God in daily life.
📖 Deuteronomy 6:4-9
Getting Ready for Session 6
Radical Grace
3-Day Exercise: "Kingdom Audit"
Day 1 - Audit Your Time
List the top 5 things that consumed your collective time in the past two weeks. Ask: "What would someone say our family values most?"
Day 2 - Audit Your Money
Look at last month's spending. What does it reveal about your values? Write one thing you're proud of and one to change.
Day 3 - Write a Kingdom Intention
Write: "One thing we will do differently to align our family with Kingdom values is ___." Post it visibly.
Read and bring your thoughts
- Read Luke 15:11-24 - the Prodigal Son.
📖 Luke 15:11-24 - Read Luke 15:25-32 - the Older Brother.
📖 Luke 15:25-32 - Read Luke 16:19-31 - the Rich Man and Lazarus.
📖 Luke 16:19-31 - Optional: Colossians 3:12-14 - clothe yourselves with compassion.
📖 Colossians 3:12-14
Getting Ready for Session 7
Road to the Cross
3-Day Exercise: "The Father's Posture"
Day 1 - Where Is Forgiveness Overdue?
Each person privately names someone they haven't fully forgiven. Ask: "What is the cost of holding on? What would it cost to let go?"
Day 2 - Practice the Run
Choose one relationship where grace is overdue. One person initiates - without waiting for an apology first. Say: "I choose to run toward you."
Day 3 - Who Is Your Lazarus?
Name one person at your "gate." Decide one concrete thing your family will do for them before Session 7.
Read and bring your thoughts
- Read Luke 19:28-44 - the Triumphal Entry and Jesus weeping.
📖 Luke 19:28-44 - Read Luke 22:39-46 - Gethsemane.
📖 Luke 22:39-46 - Read Luke 23:26-49 - the Crucifixion. Notice the three things unique to Luke's account.
📖 Luke 23:26-49 - Optional: Isaiah 53:1-12 - read it before opening Luke 22-23.
📖 Isaiah 53:1-12
Getting Ready for Session 8
He Is Risen
3-Day Exercise: "Gethsemane Surrender"
Day 1 - Name What You Are Carrying
Read Luke 22:39-46 slowly. Each person writes one thing they're carrying that feels too heavy.
Day 2 - Pray It Honestly, Then Surrender
First, total honesty: "Father, I want ___, this is hard." Then surrender: "But not my will - yours."
Day 3 - Optional Family Communion
Use bread and juice. Read Luke 22:19-20. Break and pass together. Say: "We remember what You did. We trust You with what we carry."
Bring to Session 8: Your index card from Session 1.
Read and bring your thoughts
- Read Luke 24:1-12 - the Empty Tomb.
📖 Luke 24:1-12 - Read Luke 24:13-35 - the Road to Emmaus.
📖 Luke 24:13-35 - Read Acts 1:6-11 - the Commission. Your Jerusalem is your street.
📖 Acts 1:6-11 - Optional: 1 Corinthians 15:3-8 - eyewitnesses to the resurrection.
📖 1 Corinthians 15:3-8
Continuing the Journey
Families Knowing Jesus
Practices to Carry Forward as a Family
Practice 1 - Read Your Index Card
Read what you wrote at the start. Ask: "What word would we write now? What changed in our home?" Write the new word on the back. Keep it somewhere visible.
Practice 2 - Write Your Family Commission
Write and post three things: (1) One inward practice you will protect. (2) One community commitment. (3) One outward person or household you are committing to pursue this year.
Practice 3 - Stay Connected
Don't let the group dissolve. Decide together: will you continue meeting? Try a new study? Serve together? The relationships built here are the point - protect them.
Keep reading and growing
- Read Romans 8:9-11 - the same Spirit that raised Jesus lives in you.
📖 Romans 8:9-11 - Read John 20:19-22 - "As the Father has sent me, I am sending you."
📖 John 20:19-22